While most men with testicular cancer are forced to face the
daunting fact that they may only conceive children through an in vitro process
if at all, Bob defied the odds. After
surviving two occurrences of testicular cancer, Bob was able to naturally
conceive his now two-year-old son Josh, disproving statistics and demonstrating
a will to live so strong that it ultimately brought another life into the
world.
Bob was originally diagnosed with testicular cancer in
October 1999. He soon underwent a
successful surgery that left him with clear CT scans and no sign of
metastasis. However, in December 2000, a
second tumor that Bob describes as “the size of a cantaloupe” was found in his stomach. After extensive testing, doctors found that
cancer had also spread to his chest cavity, spine, and lymph nodes. The initial strategy was to prevent Bob’s
already pervasive cancer from spreading, which would require him to undergo 26
rounds of chemotherapy. This taxing
regimen left him weak and bald at only 31 years old, yet he remained focused
throughout his treatment, during which he raised $14,000 as a participant in
the Lance Armstrong Foundation’s (LAF’s) Ride
for Roses.
Though Bob had only recently completed chemotherapy and was
scheduled for an upcoming surgery, he was able to attend and participate in the
Ride for Roses, during which he had
the honor to meet with Lance Armstrong. Upon talking with Lance and oncologist Dr. Nichols about his prognosis,
recent treatment and future surgery, Dr. Nichols suggested that Bob’s surgery –
which would involve a potentially paralyzing procedure to remove a tumor on his
spine – might be avoidable. Hopeful
about this prospect, Bob sent his medical records to Dr. Nichols for review.
In the end, Bob – now a five-year survivor – did not proceed
with a second surgery that not only had the potential to paralyze him, but
would have also left him unable to conceive children. Though Bob recognized the risk in declining
surgery, he felt that it was the best option for him, and encourages all cancer
patients to carefully consider all of their treatment options before acting on
the one with which they are most comfortable. One and one-half years following treatment, Bob became the father of a
naturally conceived, healthy baby boy.
In addition to spending time with his family, Bob is
also Founder of the Have a Ball Golf
Tournament, which in its first year raised over $35,000 for the Lance
Armstrong Foundation. Now, in its second
year, Bob looks forward to another successful event that will not only benefit
LAF, but also send six children with cancer to
Camp
Okizu in
Novato,
CA.
Camp
Okizu is dedicated to
creating memorable experiences for children with cancer, while also fostering
their independence and providing the support that they and their families
require. To learn more about the 2nd
Annual Have a Ball Golf Tournament,
please visit: http://www.haveaballgolf.com/